Coaching is an empowering conversation between the coach and the client. Under the Co-Active coaching model, we trust that the client is naturally creative, resource and whole (NCRW). We believe that everyone has the wisdom and the ability to overcome whatever challenges they are facing, and strive towards a more fulfilling life.
When you come to a coaching session with a topic that you wish to address, as a coach, my role is not to give you solutions or advice. Rather, my role is to help dispel the metaphorical fog clouding your head, and to shoo away your inner critic that is holding you back. Thus creating space for your own wisdom and inner leader to step forth, and show you the way forward.
Why this approach? Because you are NCRW. No one knows yourself, your current circumstances, your considerations, your values and your dreams better than you yourself. Who else to better choose a path forward?
It is just that sometimes the voice of our inner critic, the voice that puts us down and says we are not enough, gets a bit loud. Sometimes, the emotions we are experiencing is a little intense and disorients us.
This is where a coach can come in to support you, and call forth your wise, calm and confident inner leader. More than that, a coach also helps you strengthen your connection with your inner leader, so that you can more easily call forth your inner leader yourself when needed.

How does astrology fit into all this?
A question you might have is, how does astrology fit into all this? In my experience, both personal and from working with clients, astrology provides a shortcut into understanding ourselves, our preferences, what we are good at, and also making sense of our current situation.
And this is just the start of the conversation. With these astrological insights as a foundation, coaching then comes in to ask questions like:
- “What does your inner leader want most for you at this point in time?”
- “How do you want to make the best of it?”
This is what I love most about coaching, putting the power of choice back into the hands of the client. It doesn’t always mean that we can change the situation, but we can always change how we see and respond to the situation, in a way that is aligned with our values and who we are. So that our lives can continue to be colourful and fulfilling.
In our Co-Active coaching community, we have a saying:
“We don’t coach for a problem to be solved. We coach for a life to be lived.”
If you wish to experience what coaching is like and what it can do for you, I have a free sample session that you can take up. Please reach out to jerryastrology@gmail.com to find out more and arrange a time with me.
Wishing all of you a life of fulfilment 🙏

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